The Inner Game: Self-Coaching Your Way Through Job Searches and Interviews

Have you ever felt that flutter of nerves before an interview or the heavy cloak of doubt during a job search? You're not alone. But here's the secret: the game-changer lies within you. Let's talk about self-coaching – your hidden superpower in navigating the job market.

Imagine this: you're about to walk into an interview for a job you've been anticipating for weeks. Your palms are sweaty, your heart's pounding, and a little voice in your head keeps whispering, 'Can I really do this?' Now, let's rewind and tap into the power of self-coaching.

Self-coaching isn't just a fancy term; it's an actionable strategy to shift your inner dialogue. It's about acknowledging your doubts but choosing to not let them dictate your actions. It's the difference between 'I'm not sure I can' and 'I have the skills and experience, and I'm ready to showcase them.' This mindset is available to you, job or no job. It's not about the external validations but about what you know to be true about yourself.

When I coach professionals, I often emphasize the 'as if' principle. Act 'as if' you already have the job, not with arrogance but with the quiet confidence that you belong in that room, discussing your future role. You might think you need to cover up feelings of desperation or insecurity, but let's be clear – they are as much a part of you as your strengths. The key is not to let them lead the dance.

Remember, an interview is a two-way street. It's not just about convincing them; it's also assessing if they fit your vision of a supportive and growth-oriented workplace. Bring your whole self to the table, communicate your value, and let the conversation unfold. You're not begging for a spot; you're considering a partnership.

So, the next time you're prepping for an interview or trudging through a job search, pause and coach yourself. Remind yourself of your achievements, the challenges you've overcome, and the value you bring. Then walk through that door not with trepidation but with the poise of someone who knows their worth. You've got this.