Why High-Stakes Interviews Feel So Hard

Have you ever nailed an interview for a job you weren’t that excited about—only to completely choke when it was a role you really wanted?

You’re not alone.

I once worked with a CPG marketing leader who had great interviews for roles they weren’t fully invested in. But when their dream job came along? The nerves took over. They over-prepared, second-guessed every answer, and left the interview feeling defeated.

Why does this happen? Because the more we want something, the harder we grip it. And that pressure can sabotage our performance.

How to Stop Psyching Yourself Out

The good news? You can change this. Here’s how my client shifted their mindset—and finally landed the role they wanted most.

✅ Reframe Your Thinking

• Instead of: “I have to get this job.”
• Try: “I’m here to see if this is the right fit for both of us.”
• Why it works: This removes the pressure and puts you in evaluation mode, making you a stronger, more confident candidate...